One Month to live?

Dale at Iquitagain has thrown down the gauntlet for the month of Febuary. Can you take the 4 for 4 challenge?


Falling behind

So, I have missed my posting time because a ton to things I have been working on in fact I am debating leaving //Godfidence behind to work on some other projects.

It isn’t that I don’t want to continue working and researching the Gospel and how to live it out but I could post them at our family site, so I don’t really need a second site as well.

Family Life

What a Surprise

Saturday afternoon I was sitting around having coffee with two of my best friends not suspecting the shock I was in for.

Aaron had taken a wrong turn after showing me a store front he was looking to buy to open up a magic shop.  We ended up in a city park after hours to turn around and I was oblivious until he said “Aren’t those our wives?”  I looked up and saw two of the most beautiful ladies in the world; I happen to be married to one of them.  They took us into a little building you can rent where my wife had planned a surprise party.
It was sweet and she has done it before but suddenly Brian a friend who lives in Mississippi walked around the corner.  Then I walked into the main room to Dale and Stephanie from Arizona and Jamon and Joy from PA.  There were several other people I hadn’t seen in quite some time and all my friends from Ohio.
Needless to say I didn’t sleep at all Saturday night but it was the greatest birthday party I have ever had.  It really makes you realize how blessed you are when you are surrounded by your friends, and they are willing to sacrifice to see you.

Christianity Family Life Godfidence

Sins of Young Men

God save me from the sins of young men; save me from my arrogance and pride, looking at older men and thinking my experience is greater than theirs. Save me from the youthful lusts that so easily beset my generation. Save me from the desire to learn more about culture than about you. Save me from the thought that if someone doesn’t agree with me that they simply don’t understand. Help me to love your people in all areas in not just in my social, economic and racial background. Save me from the idea that I am in some way superior to those who have not received your grace, and may I always remember that it is only because of your gift of grace that I am anything.

God save me from the sins of middle aged men; save me from idolizing my wife and children and placing them in a place of importance that dwarfs you. Save me from being choked out by the cares of this world and the love of money (which is the root of all evil) that can be the weeds that choke out my fruitfulness in your kingdom. God save me from my complacency and the thought that I have already done your work in my youth and I deserve a break. Save me from the baggage of my past that threatens to hinder my love for my brothers and sisters.

God I know not of the sins of old men but I pray you will keep me from those as well.

Godfidence Misc Theology

Between Two Worlds

I have been in the middle of two worlds recently and it has been a very strange experience. While exploring the positive attributes of the house churches and the new less institutional models of Christianity I have found some great authors who have points I agree with even if I am not able to fully reconcile them with my current beliefs. Men like Frank Viola and Alan Knox have helped me to shake off some of the man made traditions that have seeped into my personal ethos that may or may not have had their root in the Scriptures.

I have also been influenced by a group I call the neo-reformed, which I have heard is the second fasting growing sect of Christianity second only to the Emerging church. These men are rooted steadfastly in the historic orthodox faith of the reformed tradition. Men like John Piper, Mark Driscoll and R.C Sproul, have helped me greatly get back to the historic truths of our faith.

My quandary stems from the fact that these two factions that are influencing me are in many ways diametrically opposed and my critical thinking skills are a little rusty. I believe that members of both factions love the Lord and desire to serve him, and for the most part the issues where I struggle are tertiary issues at best so it of great importance but I have been puzzling over it too long.

This is a long way of saying I may begin to do some deeper theological writing where I develop an argument and come to a conclusion, so if you enjoy that type of writing great! If you don’t enjoy it then you have been warned.

One of the first places this becomes an issue is in the area of ecclesiology (study of how the church should be governed). The house and organic groups for the most part seem to be under the impression that there was no leadership structure of any kind in the early church.

We wanted to know if it was possible for Jesus Christ to lead His church in our day just as he did in Century One – without a human head (pastor, minister, priest, etc.) – Frank Viola (Interview with Alan Knox)

Now I have already done some research into this area and it is clear to me, and the historical church that there is some form of human leadership within the church. It began with the apostles who then called for the ordination (election or appointment) of elders for each local congregation. These men were not mere the ones that fulfill the role as some people have asserted, i.e., if you do the job of an elder then you are an elder, but they were officially recognized by the local congregation, and the Bible points out certain responsibilities for these men.

The view that all people are gifted for the works of ministry in the church is one of the founding thoughts of the reformation and is one that most if not all of protestant churches hold to. The organic churches seem to go too far in the view that there are no Christians that are specially positioned in the church, like pastors and elders. Their main cry is that “He gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, 12 to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ,” which means that all of us as Christians are to minister to one another but there. And there is no real need for Pastors to do these things.

The priesthood of the believer has been so reduced to ministries like childcare and ushering that many pastors end up doing most of the ministry in the church community all alone. If someone is in the hospital, we call the pastor; is someone is in need of prayer, we call the pastor (After all he is the only one qualified to pray). Each believer has the responsibility to minister to the body in the ways they are gifted and beyond. Ministry isn’t just the Pastor’s job.

On the other end of the spectrum, Paul tell the Ephesians elders (read Pastors) to shepherd over the flock, in fact pastor means shepherd. Pastors are to watch over the flock and guard and guide them. Hebrews 13:17 assumes that Christians have leaders; “Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you.” Not only does it assume some form of leadership it assumes authority of those leaders. It would be very difficult of not impossible to have any real authority if that authority was vested in a person simply because they met the qualifications but were not appointed. You could simply decide that a person is not your leader, therefore not worthy of your obedience.

I suppose the idea here is that there is a balance in this conversation that needs to be found by both sides of the discussion. It is far too easy to only see one side of a discussion when the truth if closer to the middle than on either end of the spectrum.